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| Detroit Free Press, October 5, 1901 | 
Sitting up with the dead has not always proved therapeutic for the 
aggrieved living parties but especially in the case of spouses. Suicides
 and attempted suicides at the site of their loved one's graves were not a
 rarity. Detroit had a few of its own.
Emma Kraft could not live 
without her husband John. He was a Detroit fireman who had committed 
suicide by drinking carbolic acid a few months before in August of 1901 
and she attempted to reunite herself with her beloved by drink
ing the same toxin while lying upon his grave in Elmwood Cemetery. 
When she was discovered by a cemetery worker, who just happened to walk
 by the fireman's lot, a pitiable note was found beside her:
"Dear 
Parents:
Forgive me for all the trouble I brought upon you. I am going 
to John; I cannot live without him. Do not fail to have John removed and
 buried alongside of me. I see him before me night and day with 
outstretched arms calling for me. I must go. Your loving daughter.
EMMA."
Despite her injuries she was expected to live.
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| Detroit Free Press, October 7, 1901 |